Dr Love anyone?

Hi dr Love,

i have this very weird question to ask you.
Which is worst when in comparison?
To like someone who is only attracted to the same gender
OR
To like someone who has already given up on love due to past relationship heartbreak?


I understand that in some sense, it would seem a bit more difficult to change a person's gender preference than to make a person re-accept the joy of loving.

However, if the person is a Bi, would the situation be more hopeful or worst, since that person can choose from both guys and girls.

Lastly, which person in the senario given would have a higher chance of getting the person they like?

My guess is, if the person have given up on love, the person would have such a truama and worst still, if the person is stubborn and damn persistent, GAME OVER.

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why do i have problem letting the person know how i feel?
why does it always seemed like a joke?
i tried being serious, and i really do