RelationshiT

Recently, while i was blogging about the bus fare thingy, i came across this very cool picture that made me wanna blog about this particular too.

According to a lot of reports, there are more women than male on earth, and it also applies to the case of singapore.

BUT WHY THE FUCK AM I SINGLE?
Bah.

There is this guy that wrote to askmen.com and ask for advice that why he always scare the girl away when he starts to try and kiss them. Well, i guess, if u do this in singapore, this is a sure-fail here.
The advisor replied saying that it might be because he is ugly, or maybe his kissing approach is wrong.
And he also said that he is not brave and confident enough.
i was thinking, WTF.. daringly kiss the girl on first date still not brave enough?
i dont even dare to approach a random girl, let alone date her.

My reason of why am i single?
it is as the picture have suggested.
I have been in poly, and people are telling me poly is full of pretty girls who dress up for lessons. But damn, im in engineering school, which make it a almost all guys school. AND, as im quite against elder sister relationship, my choices even landslided more.

LAst but not least, im now in army. which made me all the more walking alone in the damn desert. luckily, i got to know this cute girl, which made my desert more bearable. but that doesnt really help. its only a short period of time for me to know her, and i got no way of contacting her. so i guess, she is just a random person which would not leave any memory inside my head after 20years. and that would have not been the case if i have more courage.

according to wiki, masturbating makes u more confident of yourselves...
what is your say, people?

She's Your Friend, NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND

okie, i came across this super cool article that made me got nothing to say.

maybe i shouldnt make 2 friends end up together.

so here it goes.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_300/365_why-shes-your-friend-not-your-girlfriend.html
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So, you're getting to that stage in your life when all of your guy friends gradually start to partner up, pop the question and enter a life of ball-and-chain bliss. As much as you may make fun of them, it's hard to ignore the sting that often comes from being the only one in your group of friends who's alone. This might lead you to think that your longtime female friend represents an intriguing solution to your loneliness -- but considering her as possible girlfriend/wife material is all sorts of wrong. You need to discover why this could be the worst idea you’ve ever had. Understand, we’re referring to the friend you see and talk to often, not the chick from college you run into after years of not speaking; she is definitely an option.

You know each other too well
You know that exciting first stage of dating when every fact a girl shares about herself seems like a clue to the overall mystery that is her -- and you're like a modern-day Indiana Jones? This stage doesn't last forever, nor is it the most crucial element in a relationship, but that doesn't mean it's not important in its own right. In an age where all our personal information is splattered all over Facebook, Twitter and whatever other social network is in vogue, mystery is highly underrated. In fact, it's been proven that a lack of mystery creates problems for men in the beginning of relationships, much more than for women. Do you think there's going to be much mystery to the chick who vomited all over your shoes one drunken night or told you all about her first pregnancy scare? Probably not.

There’s no honeymoon phase
When you first start dating someone, you’re either playing games or trying to impress her. That intoxicating feeling that causes girls to dress up in their best outfits and causes you to pretend to like the same movies she does is a quintessential first step of most relationships. Somewhere in the midst of those little white lies, you learn an appreciation and tolerance for things that you would never enjoy in the company of a friend. You’re skipping right past this phase if you start dating a long-time friend by heading straight into the comfort zone -- a land of sweatpant Fridays and snippy comments about each other’s interests. Do not pass “Go” and do not collect $200.


Awkward sex
If you’ve never thought about your friend in "that way" before, chances are the base physical attraction simply isn't there. And if it was never there before, you’ll find yourself forcing it to fit your newfound goal of making this girl your serious girlfriend -- which is bound to lead to some horribly awkward physical encounters. Your head might want to turn your friendship into something more -- but it doesn’t mean that your penis is going to agree with you.

The potential for settling
The question of “am I settling?” comes into play in almost every serious relationship at one point or another. Most times you have to ignore it and realize it’s just a product of the “grass is always greener on the other side” human condition. But when you’re taking a longstanding friendship and hurtling it full-steam ahead into a relationship, the question of whether you just settled with the nearest and easiest possible option for a girlfriend is entirely valid and a tough doubt to deal with.

The end of your friendship
Whether your attempt at turning your platonic gal pal into a serious girlfriend lasts for a week or a year, the friendship you once had with her is over. Period. There’s no going back. You might lay down the ground rules before you enter into this experiment and swear that you’ll remain friends no matter what happens, but that’s just one of those comforting lies we tell ourselves -- like Santa Claus and soul mates. A healthy, platonic relationship with a member of the opposite sex is a rare thing -- and it will rapidly become extinct in your life if you choose to cross that line.

she's your friend, keep it that way
If you've managed to keep a healthy relationship with a female friend for a good amount of time, there's a reason why you aren't a couple. She might be fun and great to talk to, but chances are she's only becoming an option now because of the current state of your relationship affairs. Forcing a friendship into something more is usually doomed to fail and worse, destined to ruin the previous bond you had. Females outnumber males in the world -- focus your sights on any one of the thousands you haven't met yet, and away from the one chick who knows you bawled like a baby every time your beloved sports team didn’t win the championship. That one’s for the vault, buddy.

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i claim no credit to these advices and comments. but i find it cool to let people know =]]

today i...

today i went to army, do this and that,
come home, play basketball, play facebook and bla blA bla..

Z... its so retarded to blog about daily life..
maybe your life have something interesting happening. but that doesnt really concern anyone. so why post it online for all to see? just write a diary or something.. but people tell me its more convienent to write it via a comp, and so i suggested they use the cool software called the mircosoft words.
Like that, you can keep your privacy to yourself.
Then, people will tell me, if you dont like it, DONT READ IT.
Well, you post, i read, then i comment about your LIFE. Thats the fun part about blogging

But now, the real problem is, when i comment, your not happy, and people start flaming each other again. If you dont want people to give you negative comments, keep the damn story to yourself, else remove the comment section. if there is a way for people to reply to your story, be prepared to face all sorts of comments.

Why post something and only want the positive comment and fuck the negative ones? ITS IS SO FUCKING UNFAIR!!!

so my conclusion is, those retards that blog about daily life or post shit status in facebook are just trying to get attention. but whatever the attention is, just deal with it and not fuck those that gives you negative ones... cause it just make you look so fucking retarded to flame.

Last but not least, if you think by crying and throwing tantrums will get people to care and concern about you, you are just a kid who only thinks that the whole world owes you one.

DISCLAIMERR
THIS POST IS NOT PARTICULAR CREATED FOR ANYONE.
JUST NEED TO LET OUT MY FLARES. I DOUBT PEOPLE WILL UNDERSTAND WTF I TYPING. SO JUST READ AND BE ENTERTAINED WITH MY SHIT PHRASING AND BROKEN ENGLISH =]]

Petition against high transportation fee for poly students

Recently when i was clearing up my facebook, i noticed that i joined a facebook group by the name of petition against high transportation fee for poly students.

i went in to read on what the people in the group have to say about the issue. Instead,i saw a group of people flaming a poor guy, cursing him and his entire family. it is so typical of singapore youngster to do that and im actually guilty of it during gaming -.-
but what i have to say is that, arguing over the internet is like running a special olympic, even if you win, you are still retarded =x

okie, back to the topic, as i was one of their member, im supposed to support the cause. However, maybe its because im no longer affected, i find it retarded to support the cause.

the poly students compared themselves to the JC and ITE students.
Some people say that coz ur dumb and u cant get into jc, you are whining here about the expensive bus fares. but the poly students rebutted that they CHOSE to go poly.
So here is my response:
if u CHOSE to go poly, deal with the rising bus fares yourselves.
and as the examples stated above, jc and ite students are wearing UNIFORMS. Poly students do not need to wear them. so as students who are NOT wearing uniforms, we are treated as young adults. so quit whining about the ADULT PRICE you are paying for your transport.

if poly students are given the benefit of student transport fees, the universities would also be asking for such priviledge too. Soon, even the NSF would want such cheaper bus fares.

If thats the case, basically everyone other than people working would all have 45cents travel fees. So how SBS earn moneY?

people who started this petition are people who only think of their self interest.
they did not think of the complications it would bring about. Poly is the eqivilent of university in some countries and i therefore think it is fair to be charged for adult fare. you guys want people to treat you like young adult, yet you still want advantages of students in uniform. i think it is only fair that unless poly students agree to uniforms, then the bus fare should be of student price. IF NOT, if u give poly student the 45cent priviledge, you should give university student such priviledge too =]

1 year later and on..

LOL...
I didnt realise that i did not delete my blog.
but okie, i shall delete all my old posts that are useless and leave those that are useful around.

Why am I back?
Because i have a lot of frustrations and nowhere to vent.
So lets waste some time here and spam some shit around =]

1 year ago, i was still troubled by the fact that im constantly sick, troubled by exams, troubled by fyp. troubled about this particular girl at that moment.

1 year later, all i can say is that im happier.
i finished schooling, and enlisted to army.
i did well for my fyp and gotten a decent gpa.
i am able to enter a nice uni, but have to wait 2 years.
i finally went to learn my first aid and cpr and aed
i gotten my driving license in first try =D
best and last of all, my illness had became better =]

but one thing about 1 year ago and 1 year later is
im still lonely and bored during cold nights.
im still only able to dream about the girl i like and nothing else.

thats all for today.
maybe if i got nice inspiration, i might write something for christmas

Ferris Wheel

Prologue(or how do you spell it)
i have been trying to write this story for at least 5 times, which half way through writing, i offed the window as i dont know how to get it the way i wanted. So lets hope this time round, the story acheive the effect that i want.
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"Mummy! What is that huge thing they are building?" a curious young boy asked his mum, pointing at the huge project where many men are working on, then 2005.

"What they are making is the world biggest ferris wheel, my dear son. A ferris wheel is a viewing tower that rotates in circle. The chinese name of it means view-the-sky-wheel. As it is tall and rotates in circle, from inside you are able to view the scenery in different angle and height." explained his mum.

And Nebia, who overheard this conversation, turned and looked at the then barren land.

Years later, and 2008 came.

The world tallest ferris wheel is in motion, or so they call it the Singapore Flyer.

Nebia is just another boring guy who sticks to his computer and games daily after school. However, his life, like a black and white picture, was colourified by the appearance of Kinie. She is a sweet and beautiful lady who never fail to catch the eyes of passerbys.

Nebia thought to himself aloud
"I have never believed in love at first sight until i know you", as this angel sits beside him.
She happened to be his friend's friend.

He is indeed mesmerised, by her smile, by her eyes, by her everything. And from there on, he tried to know Kinie better. As time goes by, her sweet and caring character got him to fall deeper and deeper. Nebia, on the other hand, exposed more and more of his unserious behaviour to her.

Soon, one day, he tried to hint to Kinie that he likes her and see her reaction. She, on the other hand, treated it as another joke of his and did not take his confession seriously.

So Nebia asked,"Hmmm... How am i supposed to convince you that im serious about you and isnt joking about this matter?"

"Give me a suprise that would make me touched until i will cry" Kinie replied jokingly, with a smile that deeply etched into Nebia's mind.

He started planning for his suprise, but what would be a nice place to do a perfect confession?
Singapore is a small place with little romantic places around, and what would make her so touched until she cry? What a troublesome girl!

As he walk around, he went back to the place where he overheard the conversation years back. But instead of a barren land, what stood in front of him is the magestic ferris wheel. And his idea came.

He asked her to the Singapore Flyer during the evening. With the beautiful sunset sky and buzzling city as his backdrop, he plucked out his courage and confessed once again to Kinie, but this time, with strangers around as witness to his love.

"There's a story about Ferris Wheel. There is a reason why it goes in circle and why it has to be tall. Going in circle would signify life, which is a circle, and there is always high and low in life, just like in the Ferris Wheel. As the Ferris Wheel is supposed to view the sky, it has to be built tall, so as to be nearest to the sky, and people believed that they will be blessed by the angels at the highest point of the Wheel. I want you to be a part of my life, and i will be there for you, be it during your peak of your life or the lowest point of your life. And my love for you is like the wheel, it always goes in circle, which signify never ending. "

At this point of time, they reached the highest point and Nebia continued,
" The time now is 19:19, and i hope that this would be the moment that you will never forget in life. I hope that this has proven the fact that im serious and im not joking no more. Would you accept me, at the highest point here, in the blessing of the angels?" he asked Kinie, while suddenly taking out a stalk of rose giving it to her.

... ... ...
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the end.

Shit quizzies

Color Checking Result!

b3n

21/12/1989

You are Green Lion, who reminds of a warm sunshine in the winter. Your personality is kind, modest and courteous. Although sensitiveness stands out in conversation, and in the way you talk, your crisp movements give good impression to people.You look as though you are very sociable, but you also have inflexible and obstinate side.You don't express your feelings and thoughts. You listen to others passively, but it is unlikely that you would use the ideas that came up.You stick to your ideas and won't change so easily. If you find weak points in other person's theory, you will severely attack that.You have a precise and alert personality. You will not go after things that are in fashion, and this can also be said about towards work.You have high self-esteem. You can calmly manage carring out your job, and is a person of artisan spirit. You dislike being told what to do. You will be successful working in venture company, where you can exercise some freedom.You are not good at behind the scene tactics. Your leadership may be easily taken by those who are much better at political maneuvering. You should become more confident by making your mind enriched.

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