i asked around, and i realised, it is normal for guys to be possessive, to be jealous when their girlfriend goes out with another group of guys, even if its a group, not alone.
and therefore, i have this thinking.
Change.
boy meets girl.
boy likes girl "just the way you are"
girl "cant help fallin in love with" boy
boy and girl blissful couple.
here comes the problem.
girl has lots of male friends due to her outgoing personality.
boy is jealous, forces girl to not go.
CHANGE 1: girl start to lose contact slowly by slowly with male friends.
no longer that free spirited anymore.
girl starts to get busy.
girl have less time for boy.
girl wants a lady nights out.
but that would mean sacrificing time with boy, which is already not a lot.
boy forces girl to stay by his side.
girl instead invite boy along.
boy gets awkward in an all girl situation.
quarrel ensued.
Change 2: bit by bit, freedom becomes history.
boy gets to know some female friends.
girl gets paranoid.
girl who was once outgoing and friendly person, now objects boy to go out with his female friend.
boy says girl is unreasonable.
girl says boy does the same.
boy says he did so to protect her.
and boy accuse girl for doing so to imprison him.
Change 3: relationship soured. girl changed, becoming paranoid, irritating and jealous.
boy finds changes in girl
boy feels that girl is no longer the girl he once loved so much.
as she is not the cheerful, friendly and outgoing persona she once was.
instead, she became easily jealous, over reliance, and dull.
boy loses interest in girl.
boy breaks girl.
girl has no one to depend on anymore, and no friends to confide in anymore, as she had "frozen" her friends to keep the relationship with boy.
Change 4: girl lost touch with the "real her" and the road to recovery is a long one..
Fault: dominance, possessive, lack of trust, aiming for perfection.
and its coz of imperfections that makes you perfect.
MORAL of the story
you change her, in short term,
u will think she is perfect.
but as time goes by, you will find her morphed into someone whom you no longer know.
and thats when the relationship will go haywire anytime or both are still together because they are used to each other, not LOVE
Im back with a flare. blogging is for people who have stuffs to tell the world all i wanna do is to curse the world with my unhappiness and i will try to keep the boredom at bay =)
1 comment:
haha wahs first time see this kind of post since your last story line blog.
hmmms i heard u said this kind of story plot before. but then again maybe its not true. if they were to get together, it means that they must understand that they are no longer single. they are attached to someone, and hence should know where to draw the line and not importantly the limit. of cus there might be possessiveness and jealously, but as long as things are not overdone, should be alrights
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