爱一人
如果你不爱一个人,
请放手.
好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你,
请放开自己,
好让自己有机会爱别人.
有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.
人生中有许多种 .
但别让自己为一种伤害.
有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,
爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.
男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.
如果真诚是一种伤害,
我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害,
我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害,
我选择离开.
如果失去是苦，
你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦，
你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦，
你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦，
你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!
okie i came thru this thingy in some blog.
dunno if its original from the blogger or got it somewhere else.
nevertheless, i find it a bit too emo..
lets see wat i can do to make it sound happieR?
爱一人
如果你不爱一个人，
放手吧，
好让她找到幸福快乐。
如果你爱的人放弃了你，
接受自由吧，
好让自己重看世界。
有的东西你再努力也征服不了,
有的东西你再留恋也只能当作回忆.
人生中有许多喜怒哀乐 .
让欢喜帮助你成长.
让怒火帮助你长智，
让哀悼使你懂得珍惜，
让快乐帮你增加信心。
有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,
爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.
男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.
如果真诚是一种伤害,
我选真诚来溺补对你的伤害;
如果谎言一种伤害,
我选择一辈子不对你撒谎;
如果沉默是一种伤害,
我选择用温暖包扎这伤口.
如果失去是苦，
得来才会更珍惜。
如果迷乱是苦，
解迷才更有意义。
如果追求是苦，
只要是为了你,
我也能苦中作乐。
如果分离是苦，
我会庆幸我们有一段美好回忆,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!
So hows my try?
I think not bad,
But changed its original meaning by a bit
bah
dun care
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Moonlight
"If the moon is what you wanted, i will do all my means to get it for you."
Jeff and Raine is a match made in heaven, or so they say.
Well, most couples started off their relationship in the sweetest way with them being no exception. Jeff is the type of guys all girls would want; handsome, tall, rich, smart, cute and caring. And because of this, many girls are attracted to him despite him being attached to Raine.
He started off being faithful to Raine, rejecting girls after girls who came up to him. However, as days goes by, and quarrels arises, Jeff was attracted to those girls that came up to him and became a flirt. But Jeff was never serious with any other girls. To him, those other girls are just girls to spend his time with when Raine is not around.
But Raine does not agree with him.
With all these problems all around, they both broke up. Jeff thought that without Raine, he would be happier as there are still lots and lots of girls around him to keep him company. However, little did he know that all he cares about is Raine, and no one else.
Raine found herself a nice guy, though not as good as Jeff in appearance, but in heart, her new boyfriend cherish her more than anyone else.
Jeff tried to win her back using all sorts of method but he never succeed.
"You have more than a chance, and yet you chose not to cherish it, i doubt you will cherish this one that you asked for now. I would rather try loving someone else that had never hurt me before than to love the guy that I love most, yet also hurt me the most"
Jeff was devasted.
"What would I have to do to let you believe that im always true to you? What do I have to do, to get a second chance?"
"The moon, I would consider you if you could put the moon before my eyes" she said.
By saying this, Raine was just trying to make the point that they cant be together. Never again. For the moon is so high up, and unreachable.
And so, like the distance between Earth and moon, the both of them drifted apart. Raine thought everything is finally over.
The night before Raine's birthday, a SMS came
"Can we meet at the same old place? -jeff"
She thought that time would have cleared all the problems between them and now that they meet each other only as friends, she accepted the invitation candidly.
They met each other, and Jeff brought her to the lake. It was a full moon night. The reflection of the moon is clearly on the surface of the water.
"This is the moon you asked for. You thought i would have given up, didnt you? I thought of giving up too. But giving you up is as good as givng up my life, for you are most precious to me. I cant give you the real moon because it belonged to everyone. But i can bring it in front of you, if that is what you wanted. For if its for you, nothing is impossible."
Jeff and Raine is a match made in heaven, or so they say.
Well, most couples started off their relationship in the sweetest way with them being no exception. Jeff is the type of guys all girls would want; handsome, tall, rich, smart, cute and caring. And because of this, many girls are attracted to him despite him being attached to Raine.
He started off being faithful to Raine, rejecting girls after girls who came up to him. However, as days goes by, and quarrels arises, Jeff was attracted to those girls that came up to him and became a flirt. But Jeff was never serious with any other girls. To him, those other girls are just girls to spend his time with when Raine is not around.
But Raine does not agree with him.
With all these problems all around, they both broke up. Jeff thought that without Raine, he would be happier as there are still lots and lots of girls around him to keep him company. However, little did he know that all he cares about is Raine, and no one else.
Raine found herself a nice guy, though not as good as Jeff in appearance, but in heart, her new boyfriend cherish her more than anyone else.
Jeff tried to win her back using all sorts of method but he never succeed.
"You have more than a chance, and yet you chose not to cherish it, i doubt you will cherish this one that you asked for now. I would rather try loving someone else that had never hurt me before than to love the guy that I love most, yet also hurt me the most"
Jeff was devasted.
"What would I have to do to let you believe that im always true to you? What do I have to do, to get a second chance?"
"The moon, I would consider you if you could put the moon before my eyes" she said.
By saying this, Raine was just trying to make the point that they cant be together. Never again. For the moon is so high up, and unreachable.
And so, like the distance between Earth and moon, the both of them drifted apart. Raine thought everything is finally over.
The night before Raine's birthday, a SMS came
"Can we meet at the same old place? -jeff"
She thought that time would have cleared all the problems between them and now that they meet each other only as friends, she accepted the invitation candidly.
They met each other, and Jeff brought her to the lake. It was a full moon night. The reflection of the moon is clearly on the surface of the water.
"This is the moon you asked for. You thought i would have given up, didnt you? I thought of giving up too. But giving you up is as good as givng up my life, for you are most precious to me. I cant give you the real moon because it belonged to everyone. But i can bring it in front of you, if that is what you wanted. For if its for you, nothing is impossible."
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Dating 101
okie, i found this article that sl thinks its very useful to me. since i seemed like im getting troubled over another potential rejection, i shall therefore share this damn article.
yahoo:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/86944/dating-101-how-to-handle-rejection;_ylc=X3oDMTNwZzRqdmpqBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEX3MDMjAyMzcwODkwNwRrA0RhdGluZyAxMDE6IEhvdyB0byBIYW5kbGUgUmVqZWN0aW9uBHNlYwNmcF90b2RheQRzbGsDZGF0aW5nLTEwMS1ob3ctdG8taGFuZGxlLXJlamVjdGlvbgR6egNhYmM-m
So there you are at the deli getting a ham sandwich, when that person you're attracted to comes and stands next to you at the counter. You've seen them over and over again, and you finally have the guts to turn and smile at them... and they do nothing in return. They almost look right through you like you don't exist.
So you grab your ham sandwich and run out of there as quickly as you can, saying to yourself, "I will never do that again. This doesn't work." Is this the best way to deal with rejection? How do you personally deal with rejection? More importantly, are you someone who believes that if you become "good" at dating you will no longer get rejected?
The dating truth is that being able to deal with rejection is the key to being successful at going out and meeting singles. It's also not the ultra-significant event so many make it out to be. So here are five essential tips on how to handle rejection, which you need to embrace if you are going to have a full and successful dating life:
1. Change Your Dating Expectations. One of the first and most important things to understand is that no matter what you do, not everybody is going to respond positively to you. Not everyone you smile at will smile back at you. Not everyone you say hello to is going to say hello back to you.Stop expecting a positive response 100% of the time. Just because somebody did not smile back at you does not mean that you're not an attractive person or that you made a mistake by smiling. The only thing it means is that it did not work with that one person.
2. Life Is All About Rejection. Everything in life has rejection involved in it. If you're a salesperson who makes 10 sales calls, you may only get one or two people to say yes. A baseball player whose batting average is around 300 will likely end up in the Hall of Fame. A quarterback who can complete 55 percent of his passes is doing pretty well. Everything in life is about percentages. You don't quit simply because you experienced some rejection. Imagine if you stopped looking for work when your very first interview didn't result in a job offer. That would, of course, be ridiculous. Remember that you also need to keep going in your dating life when you're rejected, because you want to keep increasing your odds of success.
3. Focus on Increasing Your Dating Odds. When you feel like you are getting more than your fair share of rejections, instead of focusing on those rejections, focus on increasing your odds of success. The fact is that by playing the percentages as I mentioned above, you will be successful.
The reason is that every time you take action -- every time you smile, say hello, or walk over and initiate a conversation -- you get better at it. If you're going to go out there and only talk to one person a day, then your chances of success are not going to be great. Increase your odds every single day and in everything you're doing.
4. Keep Things in Perspective. I hear some version of this from clients all the time: "What if I approach somebody, get rejected, and someone sees me? I'll never be able to go in that store again!" Get a little perspective here. Let me tell you something -- you're not front page news! When you're rejected, you need to just get over it. No one is talking about you. People are concerned about themselves and what is going on in their own lives, just as you are focused on what's going on in yours. So the fact that you get rejected in front of other people at the market, at the gym, or anywhere else is not a big deal to anyone but you.
5. Don't Overreact When Dating. The other thing I commonly hear from clients who have been rejected is some version of this: "I'm never going to talk to that person ever again now that I was rejected by them." This is not only a total overreaction, it is also absolutely the wrong thing to do. So you tried to talk to (or smile or look at) someone, and they didn't respond. As I mentioned above, there are a million possible reasons why that person did not respond to you. It doesn't necessarily mean that person wouldn't want to talk to you another time. If I smile at a woman and she doesn't respond, I don't play hide-and-go-seek the next time I see her. I am equally friendly to her the next time I see her, because you never know what will happen that second time. It's a different day. Put the last time behind you.
These are some ways to help you get over rejection. Realize that in order to get good at interacting with potential mates, you are going to get rejected. In fact, you want to get rejected every single day, because if you're not, it means you're not trying.
So ask yourself this: Did you get rejected today, and how can you go out tomorrow and make it an even better day than today? Learn to not only handle but to embrace rejection, and you will meet great new people and have an amazing social life.
yahoo:
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/86944/dating-101-how-to-handle-rejection;_ylc=X3oDMTNwZzRqdmpqBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEX3MDMjAyMzcwODkwNwRrA0RhdGluZyAxMDE6IEhvdyB0byBIYW5kbGUgUmVqZWN0aW9uBHNlYwNmcF90b2RheQRzbGsDZGF0aW5nLTEwMS1ob3ctdG8taGFuZGxlLXJlamVjdGlvbgR6egNhYmM-m
So there you are at the deli getting a ham sandwich, when that person you're attracted to comes and stands next to you at the counter. You've seen them over and over again, and you finally have the guts to turn and smile at them... and they do nothing in return. They almost look right through you like you don't exist.
So you grab your ham sandwich and run out of there as quickly as you can, saying to yourself, "I will never do that again. This doesn't work." Is this the best way to deal with rejection? How do you personally deal with rejection? More importantly, are you someone who believes that if you become "good" at dating you will no longer get rejected?
The dating truth is that being able to deal with rejection is the key to being successful at going out and meeting singles. It's also not the ultra-significant event so many make it out to be. So here are five essential tips on how to handle rejection, which you need to embrace if you are going to have a full and successful dating life:
1. Change Your Dating Expectations. One of the first and most important things to understand is that no matter what you do, not everybody is going to respond positively to you. Not everyone you smile at will smile back at you. Not everyone you say hello to is going to say hello back to you.Stop expecting a positive response 100% of the time. Just because somebody did not smile back at you does not mean that you're not an attractive person or that you made a mistake by smiling. The only thing it means is that it did not work with that one person.
2. Life Is All About Rejection. Everything in life has rejection involved in it. If you're a salesperson who makes 10 sales calls, you may only get one or two people to say yes. A baseball player whose batting average is around 300 will likely end up in the Hall of Fame. A quarterback who can complete 55 percent of his passes is doing pretty well. Everything in life is about percentages. You don't quit simply because you experienced some rejection. Imagine if you stopped looking for work when your very first interview didn't result in a job offer. That would, of course, be ridiculous. Remember that you also need to keep going in your dating life when you're rejected, because you want to keep increasing your odds of success.
3. Focus on Increasing Your Dating Odds. When you feel like you are getting more than your fair share of rejections, instead of focusing on those rejections, focus on increasing your odds of success. The fact is that by playing the percentages as I mentioned above, you will be successful.
The reason is that every time you take action -- every time you smile, say hello, or walk over and initiate a conversation -- you get better at it. If you're going to go out there and only talk to one person a day, then your chances of success are not going to be great. Increase your odds every single day and in everything you're doing.
4. Keep Things in Perspective. I hear some version of this from clients all the time: "What if I approach somebody, get rejected, and someone sees me? I'll never be able to go in that store again!" Get a little perspective here. Let me tell you something -- you're not front page news! When you're rejected, you need to just get over it. No one is talking about you. People are concerned about themselves and what is going on in their own lives, just as you are focused on what's going on in yours. So the fact that you get rejected in front of other people at the market, at the gym, or anywhere else is not a big deal to anyone but you.
5. Don't Overreact When Dating. The other thing I commonly hear from clients who have been rejected is some version of this: "I'm never going to talk to that person ever again now that I was rejected by them." This is not only a total overreaction, it is also absolutely the wrong thing to do. So you tried to talk to (or smile or look at) someone, and they didn't respond. As I mentioned above, there are a million possible reasons why that person did not respond to you. It doesn't necessarily mean that person wouldn't want to talk to you another time. If I smile at a woman and she doesn't respond, I don't play hide-and-go-seek the next time I see her. I am equally friendly to her the next time I see her, because you never know what will happen that second time. It's a different day. Put the last time behind you.
These are some ways to help you get over rejection. Realize that in order to get good at interacting with potential mates, you are going to get rejected. In fact, you want to get rejected every single day, because if you're not, it means you're not trying.
So ask yourself this: Did you get rejected today, and how can you go out tomorrow and make it an even better day than today? Learn to not only handle but to embrace rejection, and you will meet great new people and have an amazing social life.
Monday, September 22, 2008
my first entry
okie, it has been years since i really come back and do a proper blog entry.
i have decided to come back to this blogging shit is due to the fact that wj is in army, and dota times are getting lesser and im practically staring at my screen and doing nothing for the past few days.
maybe blogging allows me to express myself better so that i wont have to suppress all my feelings and let myself get into a frenzy like what happened last night.
my past philosopy is not to blog about daily life, however i guess stories from daily life would be the best way to express ourselves and let people really understand what we are really thinking, instead of just guessing what i meant.
it might sound gay, but yea.. i dont know what have i been thinking and maybe if darkie is here, he might really gimme the correct cure and i might not be so bothered about things. and though i know what cure he will offer, but without him initiating it, i cant find my cure...
LOL...
seriously, the way to start and end this first entry is so freaking gay
i have decided to come back to this blogging shit is due to the fact that wj is in army, and dota times are getting lesser and im practically staring at my screen and doing nothing for the past few days.
maybe blogging allows me to express myself better so that i wont have to suppress all my feelings and let myself get into a frenzy like what happened last night.
my past philosopy is not to blog about daily life, however i guess stories from daily life would be the best way to express ourselves and let people really understand what we are really thinking, instead of just guessing what i meant.
it might sound gay, but yea.. i dont know what have i been thinking and maybe if darkie is here, he might really gimme the correct cure and i might not be so bothered about things. and though i know what cure he will offer, but without him initiating it, i cant find my cure...
LOL...
seriously, the way to start and end this first entry is so freaking gay
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